GLADYS MAY AYLWARD

I listed some books I’ve enjoyed a couple of days ago, and I want to share a little bit about one I just finished: The Little Woman. This is the story of a young woman, Gladys, who lived in England the first 30 years of her life but ended up in China for most of the rest of her life. She was born the same year as my Dad: 1902 (24 Feb), and she died on 03 Jan 1970. She worked as a housemaid when she was young, but always had a desire to be a missionary.  As she approached 30, she heard that there were millions and millions of Chinese who had never heard of Jesus Christ. She had a great desire to go there and teach them of Christ.

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She used her life savings on a train passage to Yangchen, Shanxi Province in China. It was a perilous journey, including traveling across Siberia. She had lost almost all her belongings by the time she escaped from the Russians, was allowed on a Japanese ship, and then took another ship to China. She lived with an old missionary, Jeannie Lawson, when she first arrived. She eventually learned the language and became a “foot inspector” for the government at a time when they said young girls could no longer have their feet bound (I saw many Chinese women when I was first in Hong Kong who’d had their feet bound… they could hardly walk on the little stubs). Gladys became a Chinese citizen when she was 34 and was loved and respected. Her Chinese name was Ai Wei De, an “approximation” for Aylward meaning “Virtuous One.” The same Ai character, along with “Sister” [2 more characters], was my name when I served in Taiwan and Hong Kong. When the Japanese began invading and killing in 1938, Gladys led over 100 orphans to safety over the mountains, despite being wounded herself.

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She never married, but she adopted quite a few orphans. She returned to England when she was 46 and helped many Chinese people because of her love for them and her fluency in Mandarin. After 10 years she tried to return to China but the communist government would not allow her to come back. So she settled in Taiwan and founded the Gladys Aylward Orphanage. She worked there until her death in 1970, just short of being 68. I almost made this a SHOUT-OUT but wanted to tell about the book… please consider it both about BOOKS and READING, as well as a SHOUT-OUT to a wonderful, amazing soul!

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A movie about her life – “The Inn of the Sixth Happiness” – was made in 1968 (and filmed entirely in North Wales and England). The film didn’t please Gladys because of all the liberties that were taken. She felt her reputation was damaged. Her real Chinese name wasn’t used; “Zhen-Ai” was instead, meaning true or real love. Ingrid Bergman was tall, blonde, Swedish, and didn’t speak with a cockney accent. The movie also left out the struggle that was made by Gladys and her family for her initial trip to China. Many other extremely hard times were “dressed up” in favor of a happier story, with her real life made way too “Hollywood.”  You can read more about her amazing life at http://justus.anglican.org/resources/bio/73.html (it’s NOT the Hollywood version).  A school was named in her honor, and there is a commemorative plaque on the house where she lived in England. I hope I’ve shared enough about her that you will know why the following section from her story touched me SO DEEPLY: She performed miracles working in leper colonies and in prisons, and she was devoted to orphans (many of whom she adopted).

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When the communists took over, they encountered the large group of young people whom Gladys and others had been teaching (almost all of whom had started in Christian schools such as those started by Gladys). They handed out a long form for each student to fill in. Gladys somehow got a copy of it and said there were strange and even ridiculous questions asked, with nothing about religion or politics. However, the very last question asked the students to put a CIRCLE if they were FOR the communist government, and an X if they were against it. When the forms were examined, 300 had put circle, and 200 had put an X (they were against the government – they were Christians). The government gave the 300 a command to use any method they chose to bring the 200 “in line.” It was horrific. The forms were handed out again after a few months, and there were more X’s!! Fewer young people in favor of communism! They found out that the group of 300 would interrupt the 200 having a special prayer meeting at 7:00 each morning before breakfast at 8:00 and classes beginning at 9:00. When their prayer meeting was disrupted, they began meeting at 6:00. Disrupted again, so they began meeting at 5:00, then 4:00 . . . it went all the way to midnight!… and the Christian students weren’t getting much sleep. So the government isolated each of these Christians and put them under the guard of 10 “red-hot” communists for 3 MONTHS. They were watched constantly, jeered, talked at, indoctrinated.  Gladys and others could have no contact with them. They watched and worried. They knew that many were “babes” in the Christian faith. They prayed for them. At the end of the 3 months, everyone was forced to meet in the market square, surrounded by a huge squad of communist police. In a witness box a man with a list began calling out the names. He called out the first, and a girl of 17 stepped forward. Now I’ll quote from the book to the end of this experience: She was refined and beautiful, and had been brought up in one of those lovely courtyards that belonged to the wealthy of Peking before the war. She had been sent here for safety – now she stood before her accusers! “What position are you standing in now?” bellowed the voice of the man in the box. She walked to the little platform. She faltered a little and we thought she was going to fall. Why put this slim, frail slip of a girl up first? we questioned. Poor child, how can she stand? Then her voice ran out, suddenly clear and strong. “Sir, when I went for my three months’ indoctrination, I thought Jesus Christ was real. I thought the Bible was true. Now I KNOW Jesus Christ is real, I KNOW this Book is true!” One after the other of these two hundred names were called out, and not one faltered, though they knew enough of their persecutors by now to know that they would be made to suffer. Every one of them was beheaded that very day in the marketplace. Before each execution the victim was given one last chance to recant; but even those at the end, who had been forced to watch the terrible butchery of all the others, did not flinch. “Why,” people ask, “did God allow it?” Was it because He loved them so much that He took them before worse terrors and tortures befell them? Theirs, maybe, was the easier death. They went straight to those many mansions their Saviour had gone before to prepare for them. They had followed Him even unto death. I look forward to meet Gladys someday, and I feel comforted knowing that she is with the 200 young people who were murdered that day and MANY others whom she loved and served during her life. (No wonder WHNF is trying so HARD to prevent us from going into Mainland China! I love it that there is already a mission in China, many members, several stakes, and even a TEMPLE! (In Hong Kong, which is now part of China again).  ONWARD, EVER ONWARD!!!!!

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SUMMER READING

The summer is in full swing, it seems. And the calendar says it’s JULY! So I decided to share some thoughts about reading. I LOVE TO READ (in case you were wondering). I’m always reading several books at a time. Different times of day, different locations. And some I listen to. I read “serious” things in the morning. I read The Book of Mormon every year and love and cherish that book SO much. I “rotate” the other Standard Works, and I’m currently reading The Old Testament. I don’t think I’ve read it “clear through” more than about 7 times. Sometimes I smile – like when I read of the brothers, Huz and Buz (Genesis 22:21; I think they’re twins. I can’t help smiling!). Two other names that make me smile are sons of Benjamin: Muppim and Huppim (Genesis 46:21); maybe they’re also twins? Or this wise counsel (which I used a lot as a  missionary): Thou shalt not eat any abominable thing (Deuteronomy 14:3).

OK… I assure you that I don’t read the scriptures just so I can find things to smile or laugh about. I’m reminded of so many incredible stories and examples. I’ll share just one here. It’s the reunion and reconciliation between Jacob and Esau after Jacob has served Laban for around 20 years. This is in Genesis 33. Jacob is nervous. He divides up his family and prepares MANY gifts for Esau. What happens next is a beautiful example of forgiveness and kindness. Esau sees Jacob and asks “What do you mean by all these gifts??” Jacob says he’s hoping to find grace from his brother, his twin. Verse 9: Esau: “I have enough, my brother; keep that thou has unto thyself.” Oh my . . . isn’t that beautiful! That touched me so deeply!  To have enough – to know you have enough – is a gift, isn’t it. A spiritual gift. It’s like a thought I’ve shared quite frequently: “It is probably a better blessing to want less than it is to have more.” Another way to say it: “It’s a better blessing to need less than to want more.” Anyway, Jacob shares this after Esau’s sweet response: (Verse 10) “Nay, I pray thee, if now I have found grace in thy sight, then [please] receive my present at my hand; for therefore I have seen thy face as though I had seen the face of God [!], and thou wast pleased with me.”  He urges Esau to accept the gifts (Verse 11) “Take, I pray thee, my blessing that is brought to thee; because God hath dealt graciously with me, and because I have enough.” (They both feel and say that they have enough and to spare – see Doctrine and Covenants 104:13-18).  Jacob then urges Esau to take the gift, and he does. And they get ready to depart. Verse 12: “Let us take our journey, and let us go, and I will go before thee.” There is this acknowledgement: “the children are tender” and “the flocks and herds” have young … if they travel too fast, all the flocks will die. So: “you go first,” and then, in Verse 14: “I will lead softly” . . . . Oh, I just LOVE so MUCH of what is recorded in the Old Testament! And, of course, in ALL scripture!

Another book which I’ll probably finish today is The Crucible of Doubt by Fiona and Terryl Givens. Oh, I love the way they write, the way they share. I learn and feel so much! Another book by the two of them is one I love as well: The God Who Weeps. I recently finished The Contrite Spirit by Bruce and Marie Hafen, and what a beautiful book! It gave me SO much to think about. Also All That Was Promised, about the building of the St. George Temple and the settling of that area in the 1800’s. SO many sacrifices! SO many miracles! (I highly recommend the books I’m mentioning). I’ve begun one of my favorite books for the 5th of 6th time: The Infinite Atonement by Brother Tad R. Callister. If you’ve not yet read it, please consider doing so. The Atoning Sacrifice of the Savior is central to everything else about His gospel.

I’m reading a book by Marilyn Green Faulkner which is absolutely wonderful. It’s an amazing “mix” of humor and thought-provoking truths. The User-Friendly Book of Mormon. It has just recently been published, but some of you may have read it or heard about it. It’s delightful and delicious! “Timeless truths for today’s challenges.”  On the back cover: “You’ve never read the scriptures quite like this. Ancient prophets can help with modern-day dilemmas, told through entertaining parables such as “Nephi and Netflix,” “Isaiah goes to girls’ camp,” “The brother of Jared’s guide to dating.” She writes about the Liahona and asks “How can I get one of these?” Don’t get the idea that this is a “funny book.” It’s NOT. (And don’t get the idea that she even knows I’m writing about her book!) But she has the ability to be creative in sharing truth and inviting us to love and search The Book of Mormon even more than we already do. Great insights are shared, there are many references, and she leaves space for the reader to add “Your stories and thoughts.” She asks many questions, like “Are you a spiritual geriatric?” “What’s a parent to do?” “Can we have it all?” “What do we expect from a prophet?” She shares many thought-provoking ideas, such as “The difference between God and Santa Claus,” “Control versus Influence,” “Your wrestling match with God,” “Be careful what you wish for.” I think you’d really enjoy this book. And MANY OTHERS TOO!!!

As I mentioned, I read “serious” things in the morning, including scriptures and the Ensign. In the evening I like mysteries and all kinds of other books to get my mind ready to settle down and sleep (ha). (Sometimes I choose a real “page-turner,” and I keep saying to myself “just one more chapter!”) The difference between now and when I was a child is that I don’t have to use a flashlight and read under the covers….

HAPPY SUMMER READING TO YOU!!